What to Expect at Your First Swingers Club Visit (An Honest Guide)
Your first swingers club visit doesn’t have to be terrifying. Here’s an honest, no-sugarcoat guide to what actually happens, what the etiquette looks like, and how Matt and I survived our awkward debut.
Swinging Terminology & Lingo: The Complete Glossary
If you’ve ever read a lifestyle profile and felt like you needed a decoder ring, this is for you. Nicole’s complete glossary covers every swinging term, acronym, and piece of slang you’ll encounter — from soft swap to unicorn hunter — in plain, judgment-free English.
How to Talk to Your Partner About Swinging for the First Time
Wondering how to bring up swinging with your partner? Nicole shares exactly how she did it — plus what to say, when to say it, and how to handle every possible reaction.
The Complete Beginner’s Guide to Swinging in 2026
So you’re curious about swinging. Maybe your partner brought it up over dinner, or maybe you stumbled across the idea online and haven’t been able to stop thinking about it. Either way, you’re here — and that takes guts. Here’s the thing most people don’t realize: millions of couples around the world participate in the […]
Why do married couples desire to engage in swinging?
Sexual novelty, deeper communication, personal growth — there are a lot of reasons couples are drawn to the lifestyle. Here’s a look at the most common ones, and why the answer is rarely as simple as people think.
Books on Sex and Swinging You Should Read
A shortlist of books on sex, swinging, and human sexuality that are actually worth your time — whether you’re just getting curious or looking to understand the deeper ‘why’ behind non-monogamy.
The Rules To Having a Great Time Swinging
Before you set foot in a club or house party, you need to know the unwritten rules. These 10 basics — from setting boundaries and safe words to hygiene and not getting weird after — will save you from 99% of the drama.